The ADT Journey – Week 24

The week started with a rest day in Cimarron to wait out a snowstorm.  We stayed at the Cimarron Hotel, the same place where the original team that mapped out the ADT stayed to also wait out a wintry storm.  Such historical figures as Wyatt Earp and Doc Holiday stayed there as well.

The “hotel” was in name only, with no hotel staff or reception area.  We landed there because our Garden City hosts called ahead to their friend and “hotel” owner Kathleen Holt to welcome us in.  We only managed to speak to Kathleen by phone, who shared a story about the ADT mapping team playing Taboo near the Christmas holidays, otherwise the other guests of the “hotel” were temporary renters and other people Kathleen was helping out.

After sharing the same hotel space as the legendary Wyatt Earp, our next stop was the legendary Dodge City.  I spoke at the Lions Club there, where once again I was well-received.  In lieu of an unsolicited donation, something strangely related occurred after my presentation when two club members came to speak with me.

In addition to showing excitement over some of the community involvement ideas, they gave me heartfelt thanks specifically for not asking them for any donations.  Apparently, many cross country travelers pass through Dodge by foot, horseback or bicycle; apparently, many do so on behalf of a cause for which they solicit support.  In contrast, our cause involved more giving to the local community than soliciting, which brought palpable relief to our hosts.

I have hiked in two different eras now.  The seventies and eighties witnessed much fewer long distance hikers than now..  A few hundred hiked the Appalachian Trail the same year I first did in 1975; under one hundred tackled the Pacific Crest Trail in 1977; our group of seven who thru-hiked the entire Continental Divide Trail in 1985 likely doubled the number of all previously successful thru-hikers, as claimed to us at the time by the Continental Divide Trail Society.

Back then manufacturers of outdoor gear were more willing to sponsor a thru-hiker; I have been sponsored by several.  Now there are too many thru-hikers, and the endeavor too common, to engage sponsorship outside of unusual cases.  Instead, there appears to be a rise in the number of long distance travelers doing so for a cause these days, so much so that local communities along the more frequently traveled paths have been saturated with their soliciting.

Maybe our model of giving something to the communities we pass through, albeit what only amounts to advice in our case, can be the next long distance hiker trend.  I own a pedicab that I used for transporting Cindy around town when she first no longer could walk; someday I hope to traverse the country again, this time in the pedicab and stopping at children’s hospitals (children weigh less) to provide rides for disabled kids.  Anyone could come up with their own unique idea for this model of giving while traveling.

Dodge City was literally a turning point for us, as in we turned to hike due north until we reached Larned.  This exposed us to high cross winds of 40+ mph over the open Kansas plains, forcing us to lean into the wind and hiking somewhat at a diagonal.  As we hiked mostly on paved roads throughout this stretch, whenever a large truck broke the wind for us we had to catch ourselves from suddenly falling over.  “Russian thistle,” tumbling tumbleweeds if you will, would soar across the road too quickly for me to adequately catch on camera.

Sheriff Bobby Blackwell stopped us along this stretch to engage in long, friendly conversation.  He advised us that tornadoes track northeast, which means if we encountered one we should always head southeast.  Considering this was Kansas, we paid close attention to his expert advice.

Another sheriff stopped us as we neared Larned, but this exchange was not as pleasant.  A passing motorist had reported us with suspicion and the sheriff had to respond.  We did not mind the interrogation as the sheriff looked embarrassed the whole time for having to ask for our ID, except for having to stand still in the rain.  I guess we did not look too threatening to him and he left us with meek apologies.  A trucker punctuated this incident soon after by giving us a long blast on his horn.  Most horn blasts give us are unmistakably friendly; this one unmistakably was not.

This would seem out of character for Kansas, a state that the ADT grapevine holds as one of the friendliest along the way, but how people behave when hurried or under pressure differs from how they behave when relaxed.  Towns in Kansas showed us great hospitality, to which this very stretch attested.

In Spearville we stayed at the Presbyterian Church.  Britta, the sexton there, brought us supper and invited us for breakfast while introducing us to her cute helpers.

In Kinsley, halfway point milewise for the country, we stayed at the Methodist Church, as arranged by the Methodist Church that previously hosted us in Dodge City.  Our stay fell on a Sunday and I sang in the choir, being asked to come back by fellow choristers who did not otherwise know what I was doing there.

In Garfield we stayed at the Methodist Church that was the former parish for the pastor in Kinsley.  We participated in their delicious potluck supper.  Unfortunately, our conversation with parishioners revealed how towns in Kansas like Garfield are diminishing in numbers and involvement.

In Larned we once again stayed at a Methodist Church, holding over for a rest day through another storm.  We made friends with Frank the custodian, whose wife Linda sent back to the church the second evening to bring us home for showers, laundry and supper.

When I first looked back on this week, nothing of great importance immediately stood out, but as I took a closer look I realized why our ADT journey stands out as the most amazing one of all.  Every journey features memorable moments, including memorable moments of kindness, but the kindness along the way on this journey became more ubiquitous than memorable.  That realization at the time primed me for a conversation in Larned that did prove memorable.

Jason Toll was the outreach pastor Helping Hands Ministry in Larned, a central organization to combine an existing food pantry and benevolence missions that take care of various needs from fuel bills to funeral costs.  They get their funds from various churches, the town and citizens, along with donations for businesses such as Kroger’s.  There are no questions asked to help those professed to be in emergency need.  Their assistance is not meant to be sustaining, after six years they report no abuse of this benevolence.

Right before I entered Jason’s office to interview him, he had been visited by a member of the community.  News got out that the annual Thanksgiving meal was being cancelled because of lack of financial support from the area churches.  The woman offered to cover the whole cost of the Thanksgiving meal anonymously, believing that this community function should never die.  This generous act by a nonbeliever created a minor crisis of faith for the Assembly of God pastor and my timely entrance made me his sounding board.

Jason confessed he believed that only through faith are we moved towards good works, even though the anonymous woman seemed to refute that.  That caused him to ask what motivated me to walk across the country promoting the virtues of kindness and community.  I replied that as a long distance hiker I experienced kindness naturally flowing from all kinds of people in all kinds of situations, including this past week of hiking north towards Larned.

Certain conditions can turn off the tap for our kindness, conditions like hurried traffic or stressful work (or partisan politics and “social” media for that matter), but otherwise the natural empathy we feel for others causes us to respond.  Just from the short time we conversed I told Jason I believed his heart motivated him, not his faith.  He did not readily agree, yet at our parting I could tell he was considering that possibility.  Perhaps he still does to this day.

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The ADT Journey – Week 23

A passing motorist stopped to warn us about a coming storm, in defiance of the red sky that greeted our first evening in Kansas, allegedly an indicator of “sailor’s delight” and good weather.  Dusk found us chatting with a rancher and gaining permission to set up our tent on his land.  I secured the tent as well as possible, battened down the hatches so to speak, to protect us against the looming southwest Kansas dust storm.

I have protected ourselves successfully from all manner of mountain weather with my tent, but the fierce winds across the open Kansas plains bent our tent poles down to near their breaking point.  By morning the inside of our tent was coated with dust, as were the inside of our nostrils.  We had to shake the dust out of the tent the best we could as part of breaking camp, gaining an appreciation for what the Dust Bowl truly meant.

During our first Kansas town stop in Syracuse I gave talks at both their Lions and Rotary clubs.  The Lions Club meeting was held at the Methodist Church and the pastor allowed us to sleep there that night.  We also attended the Community Friendship supper held at the same church once a month.  Attendees donate most of the food for the supper, they then use the collection at the supper for needs such as people’s fuel bill.

We learned at the Lions Club meeting about a fascinating entrepreneurial effort that the club wanted to encourage others to emulate.  Like many southwest Kansas towns Syracuse is aging, but one native son became disenchanted with city and corporate life in Denver and returned home at age 33.  After the meeting we took a field trip to witness Matt Gould’s plans for renovating a depressed downtown property he acquired “dust cheap.”

Matt combined his interests in hunting, photography, brewing and raising bison in his creation of The Loft.  Downstairs, The Loft will be a restaurant that features Matt’s bison and beer.  We toured the finished upstairs, which can hold up to eight guests.  Matt will lead guided hunting tours in season and house his clients in The Loft.  His photography will be displayed, and available for purchase, on both floors.

Matt’s entrepreneurial spirit contrasted starkly with another Matt we met in Utah.  We had partied with Utah Matt and his buddies in their neighboring campsite to ours.  They treated us to a feast that resulted from their hunting trip, a trip designed to ease Utah Matt’s pain from recently being laid off.  They also supplied plenty of beer and in an inebriated state Utah Matt went on an emotional rant about the evils of corporations.

We got along well until I suggested to Utah Matt that he use his skills in concrete or hunting to either become or work with a proprietor.  He then defended how necessary corporations are for things like pensions and health care.  Kansas Matt escaped the clutches of corporations for a return to small town life; Utah Matt succumbed to the clutches of the corporations he hated.

Having pensions and health care contingent on employment gives corporations a large competitive advantage over proprietors and small businesses, and that is just the tip of the iceberg.  Over the past few decades bankruptcy laws have tightened for small businesses, while bailouts are saved for the corporations “too big to fail.”  The cost of higher education has escalated to the point of making graduates indentured servants to the corporations that most readily can provide gainful employment to pay down student loans, rather than risk entrepreneurial endeavors.

Still, Utah Matt was the more blatantly bitter person from feeling he could not escape corporate employment, while Kansas Matt displayed refreshing energy in his innovative zest to overcome the hurdles.  Plus Kansas Matt was better poised to be a contributor to the health of his community.

Somebody hit and dented Ky’s bumper again while we attended the community supper, just a week after the previous accident to her parked car.  Once again she took the news admirably well, even though this time the van could not be left somewhere for a week to be repaired.  Fortunately, by this time I had received word from our Kansas City friends we met in Frisco.  Ardie and Gretchen arranged an itinerary for me with four speaking engagements in the area.  Ky contacted them for a place to get her car repaired again during our stay in Kansas City.

Our next town stop was Lakin.  We did not meet any new friends here, however the town has a policy of providing a motel stay for wayward travelers, for which we qualified.  Lakin’s population was only slightly larger than my home town of Norfolk, Connecticut but because of the wide open spaces and sparse populations out west, places like Lakin could be considered a city, while Norfolk is a quaint village.  A sign revealed that Lakin had a different church denomination for about every 150 residents.

We arrived at Garden City in time for Halloween.  We first stayed at the United Church of Christ (UCC), where the next morning I spoke at their church service and played guitar for their offertory during their Mission Sunday.  The last UCC church that hosted us was in Auburn, California.  We had a natural connection with this denomination, the same as our home church who vouched for us throughout the journey, but we were very ecunemical in where we laid our sleeping bags at night.  Any church floor would do as we crossed the plains.

We talked for a long while after church with Pastor Mike Lake and wife Mary about the kindness and friendships met along the way.  I confessed the bittersweet feelings I had in making good friends only to part from them in such a short time.  Mary shared that she often found herself in that situation as a pastor’s wife and would tell people upon leaving:  “Thank you for being a part of my life.”  I would use that parting as we traveled farther along.

After coffee hour, we moved to the home of Dale and Debra Bolton, which became our home base while we slackpacked the next two days.  That Sunday evening the Boltons threw their customary dinner party.  We recalled our first night in Kansas and the futility of securing ourselves from the dust storm.  That led to a host of stories around the table about the Dust Bowl years in southwest Kansas, when people placed wet cloths around all the windows and cracks in their own futile battles against the dust.  I am not sure anyone can fathom the futility these stories convey unless they experience ahead of time like we did.

Debra worked for the Cooperative Extension of Kansas State University and shared with me an interesting finding from her research:  the diets of immigrants are healthier in their homeland than after they move here.  Health also was on Debra’s mind for Halloween, as she handed out toothbrushes, donated by dentists, to the 1600 kids that came by that evening.  Meanwhile, we learned that Halloween back home had been cancelled due to an early snowstorm that dumped 18 inches in Norfolk, even more in some other places.

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The ADT Journey – Week 22

This week of the journey found Ky flying back home for a family reunion, the Andersons of Olney Springs taking care of her dented minivan and us tackling our first completely unsupported stretch across the plains. We previously hiked unsupported across wilderness mountains and deserts; the plains presented greater uncertainty and unknowns to us, particularly in regards to camping.

I was curious about the potential role of trail angels during this week.  They are neither expected nor needed in the wilderness, coming across them on this trail during the wilderness portion, like coming across them on other trails in the seventies, occurred with intermittent town stops.  Would they now pop up as frequently as the towns we encountered?

We got our answer the first day out of La Junta.  A late start, twenty miles of planned hiking and earlier autumn sunsets found us out on the road with dusk fast approaching and no obvious place to camp.  We resolved to go three miles further to the Bent Forts Inn, where I gave my talk to the Las Animas Lions Club just the day before.  Upon arrival under darkening skies, the receptionist we first met gave us the OK for setting up our tent on the property.

We were now at a point in Cindy’s recovery where she could do a few things to help with setting up camp and we were already finished when the manager came out to greet us.  She invited us in for a free supper, a free breakfast in the morning and encouraged us to stay in their outbuilding in between.  We declined the offer for shelter but, well, a long distance hiker NEVER refuses free food.

The next day we stayed at John Martin State Park, a campground that had closed for the season.  We paid no fee, but outhouses and running water were still available.  We witnessed vibrant autumn colors along with the sunset that evening.

We headed for LaMar the day after that, a Saturday, with a plan already in place to contact the United Methodist Church, the former parish of the pastor we met in Pueblo.  Father Ramon met us at the Colorado Visitor Center and brought us to a motel where he put us up at his own cost.  We attended a mirth-filled potluck provided by the church that evening. The reason people kept greeting us with potlucks was no coincidence, considering that my message of community involvement often preceded our arrival.

The next morning I gave a talk to two combined adult Sunday School classes, drawing upon increasing anecdotes from the journey we were on.  In response to the talk they passed a collection basket around for us.  Witnessing the large number of bills people contributed humbled us.  From then on we had no financial worries about funding Ky and her support vehicle.  Higher gas mileage and lower fuel costs as we crossed the plains also helped.

The good folks of LaMar connected us with Pat Palmer for our next stop along the way.  Apparently, Pat stood out in the whole region as a man with a kind heart who does good deeds for others.  His pet projects were helping children and promoting Southeast Colorado to anyone who would listen.  Among his many avocations was wheelwright, Santa Fe Trail buff, chuck wagons and dutch cookers.

Pat became a cross between the Andersons and the Goth woman in our memories.  He had the completely unassuming, kindness by happenstance of the goth Woman, but during our brief stay we spent much time together, becoming old friends instantly, making our parting bittersweet.  We stayed in contact a few years after the journey was over.  I intended some day to pedal up to this wheelwright and chuck wagon enthusiast with my pedicab, giving him a ride over the flat plains (much easier than hilly northwest Connecticut).  Now I am not sure if I will see him or others from our journey again.

Pat’s chuck wagon interest connected us to another enthusiast in Holly, our next stop along the way. While we were there Kent and Elaine Anderson shared their experience of living through the Holly tornado.  What stuck out to me was how the town banded together to help their neighbors recover from the tragedy, getting much of it done before outside relief came.

The unfortunate side of staying with the Andersons was sitting through a whole evening of news.  The big story reported by their favorite channel, perhaps spurred by the Wall Street protests, was how labor unions  had spent $80 million on lobbying so far for the 2012 election.  I am not a real advocate for unions, mainly because my community advocacy supports proprietors, while corporations are what makes unions necessary.  Let us be real, though, my own research for the previous election revealed that just one particular interest group for corporations, the US Chamber of Commerce, alone spent $360 million dollars on lobbying, more than four times the combined lobbying of labor.  No one should look at those statistics and think:  “Those blasted unions!  Our laws and government must be unfairly catering to labor!”

Unfortunately, that is the conclusion viewers of this station would reach, partly because of the content, partly because of the means of “reporting.”  The station used marketing tactics to engage the emotions of their viewers, quite successfully, considering its viewership numbers.  Among those common marketing tactics are cultivating fear, entitlement and anger in viewers.  I felt like I was witnessing a time bomb ticking away towards blowing up our country’s collective brain and societal health.  You could see that happening with our hosts, a warm, kind, endearing couple who were getting ever more agitated with unions per minute of watching their favorite station.

The next day we crossed into Kansas, finishing up both the week and the longest state on the American Discovery Trail.  We engaged in great conversation with a rancher along the road, who had met other ADT hikers and granted us permission to camp on his land a few miles ahead.  After experiencing a “Trail Angel Day” in Nevada, this last week in Colorado qualified for our “Trail Angel Week.”

During this past week, while walking along roads past farms and ranches, I noticed how creative the folks of the heartland were with their mailboxes.  I never noticed creative mailboxes close to home before then, but now I do.  Whether that means our journey opened my eyes to them or that was the beginning of their popularity I do not know, but I hope someday to create and sell a picture calendar of mailboxes from our journey.  Please let me know if this idea appeals to you.

In addition to being the longest state, Colorado became the state of transitions for our journey.  We entered Colorado during the desert heat of summer and left during the coolness of the plains in fall, transitioning into and out of mountain landscapes in between.  We transitioned as well from wilderness to towns and farmlands.

On a personal note Colorado witnessed our financial situation transition from shaky to stable, due to lower fuel costs and rising, unsolicited donations.  The venues for my presentations on kindness and community transitioned to a broader audience that included schools and churches.  Ky’s role transitioned into being our scout for churches to stay at and present, whether during a potluck, a Sunday School class or church service.  More importantly, she also became a sort of kindness ambassador for us, oftentimes endearing herself to people before our arrival.

As we progressed through Colorado, Cindy once again showed evidence of her cognitive decline reversing.  She could help with setting up the tent, which became a big help as decreasing daylight sometimes meant hiking until dusk.  She talked about taking courses when we got home, particularly in photography.  I had her take pictures of me occasionally with my camera, but that seemed to intimidate her; I did not realize how involved she was in taking pictures with her own camera until after the journey was over. Things would only get better for her throughout Kansas.

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The ADT Journey – Week 21

We took a rest day in Pueblo.  I had hoped to present at a college in the city and get publicity from the local news sources, but neither happened.  Instead, the tone for what would happen during our journey across the plains was set when we stayed at a church and I performed a couple of my community themed songs, with my backpacker’s guitar, during their Wednesday evening dinner program.  A conversation with Pastor Rick Calhoun of the First United Methodist Church led to him making contacts for us with Lions Clubs and a Methodist church along our route.

I was interviewed by Voices on the Net, an internet radio platform.  The interview was supposed to last 30 minutes, but our journey captivated them and they extended the interview to 45 minutes.  The way they started gushing over us embarrassed me a little bit.  Kindness and community building are not the province of idols.

Also in Pueblo I interviewed the Director of the Cooperative Care Center whose mission is “sacking hunger.”  In addition to single mothers and their families being food challenged, Marci Reynolds-Bain informed us of three new demographics: single fathers, senior citizens and baby boomers (the interview occurred before baby boomers became senior citizens).  Each demographic has its own unique set of unfortunate circumstances, requiring too much depth to go into here, all consequences of an economy where wealth disparity has been growing for five decades.  Marci shared that sometimes she needs to be alone and debrief from all the sad situations she witnesses.

You should check out my informative interview of Marci.  Though  I currently go by the trail name of Humanity Hiker, at the time of the ADT journey I chose Hiking Humanitarian, which was too much of a mouthful.  While the symphony I composed about our journey is on the Humanity Hiker YouTube channel, all my interviews during the journey are on the Hiking Humanitarian channel.  Someday I intend to merge the two channels, but for now I strongly encourage you to listen to Marci if hunger issues interest you.

Before our journey started, I arranged to give a talk at the Olney Springs Lion Club, which would become our second rest day in a week.  Several interesting events happened on our way there.

At a convenience store a young Goth woman attempted to give us money, thinking we must be homeless.  I declined the money and took her picture.

A lonely woman who lived in a trailer park invited us as the only guests for her birthday.

We camped on the lawn of a church, learning the next morning that they had an automatic sprinkler system.

We met a hardware store owner in Boone, who occasionally provided a place to stay and work for homeless people. The next day a motorist pulled over who had been involved in the Wall Street protests across the country that year and was enthused about our advocacy to build community.  The juxtaposition of the proprietor in Boone with Wall Street investors in regards to community is an angle seldom explored. While corporations may have foundations and other means to benefit society, local proprietors are more likely to be involved with building their community.

As we passed and took notice of a bustling Quonset hut in Avondale, two people came over to tell us they were preparing for the grand opening of their cowboy church in a couple days, and invited us to attend.

The morning of our rest day coincided with the grand opening of the cowboy church, so guess where Ky brought us.  After all, she said she wanted a cowboy boyfriend, so this was her chance! The service was held inside the Quonset hut.  A cowboy band provided music, set up on some bales of hay just outside the Quonset hut entrance.  After the service ended they quickly rearranged the hut for a grand potluck lunch, complemented by a cowboy barbecue set up outside.  Then they capped the grand opening of their cowboy church with a rodeo!

We stayed with hosts Ed and Lorell Anderson during our rest day in Olney Springs. The day was capped with a potluck hosted by the Olney Springs Lions Club that evening, where I advocated for community involvement as usual, now with examples such as Leadville’s community meals program.  I made a connection between community involvement and local autonomy.  One of the members, who worked for an energy company, responded with a complaint about the “People’s Republic of Boulder” seeking to make their town energy independent.

I suggested that Olney Springs and other towns of the Colorado plains want the local autonomy to do things their way.  Why should Boulder be denied their own local autonomy because they have different beliefs?  That message seemed to hit home to everyone but perhaps the energy employee, as the club voted to donate $100 to us, unsolicited as always.

The Andersons were tremendous hosts to us during our stay.  They were particularly fond of Ky.  She would be going back east in a few days for a family reunion and they offered to help her with transportation to the airport and stow her car.  Ed shared a touching story from when he used to be a Santa Claus in Illinois.  I share that story here.

The day we left the Anderson’s for our hike to La Junta was the only overcast day during our stretch along the Colorado plains.  The gloominess fostered bittersweet thoughts of our wonderful hosts.  In the past ten days the Andersons, the Cravens and Dick Bratton took us in as one of their own, and leaving them was leaving family behind, only with less chance of ever seeing them again.

Just as memorable, in some ways more so, were the trail angels like the Goth woman, John Nicholas and others who we encountered completely by happenstance and sometimes only briefly.  These also were the type of trail angels I encountered during my long distance hikes of the seventies, people who you alone encountered and not hundreds or thousands of other hikers.  This is a special, intimate type of trail magic that is fading along the more established trails, where trail guides broadcast where the thru-hiking masses can find trail angels all along their route.

The Amderson’s daughter Charli, who visited her folks while we were there, had pulled some strings to arrange quite the treat for us in La Junta.  Once we arrived in town we were “held hostage,” a La Junta tradition of local police pulling over passing motorists, bringing them to a complimentary hotel where they are then brought to a complimentary meal at a local restaurant, and then brought to the monthly “Wake Up La Junta” celebration the next morning.  Police no longer can stop people for the tradition, but we were not too hard to spot coming into town.

The MCs for the “Wake Up La Junta” event were dressed in long, red, flannel pajamas, reflective of the 6:45 am start.  A banner behind the stage read: “La Junta, the Smile Hi City.” Jokes were told, awards were given out, the high school jazz band played and, most importantly for a couple of thru-hikers, breakfast was served.  As sort of the guests of honor we sat at the table nearest the stage.  They also gave us a bag of various gifts from local vendors.  The point of the hostage tradition was to give out-of-town folks a neighborly introduction to the charms and businesses of the town. Well, they won us over!

Catching “Wake Up La Junta” seemed like another example of being blessed by serendipitous timing on our journey, starting with arriving at Middlegate Station in Nevada when they were having their Saturday all-you-can-eat steak barbecue.  Having been blessed by trail magic so often leads me to wonder if serendipity is the right word.  Maybe happy coincidences are not really rare for those who put themselves out there for them to happen.  Maybe if our journey brought us through La Junta a week later we would have missed something wonderful there, but experienced something wonderful later in Lamar (oh, wait, we did).  Maybe serendipity provides good cause for us not to feel fortunate for ourselves, but to feel hopeful about humanity.

We took an unplanned rest day in La Junta, the third of the week, in order to give talks at Lions Clubs in both Las Animas and Cheraw.  Upon leaving the second meeting in the evening, one of the Cheraw members rear-ended Ky’s parked van.  She took the mishap extremely well, especially considering that she was about to fly back home for a family reunion.  Fortunately, the Andersons from Olney Springs came to Ky’s rescue, bringing her to the airport with the peace of mind that they would arrange for the body repairs while she was gone.

We left La Junta with full packs that would bring us into Kansas.  Besides enjoying the intimacy of just the two of us, we anticipated that food fortune would be waiting for us as always.

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The ADT Journey – Week 20

On our first day back from Denver I scouted trails for us to go up and over Pikes Peak, but I could not find a practical route that would land us near Cripple Creek. We would either be doubling back or landing on the wrong side of the mountain.  Our gracious host Dick Bratton drove us to the top of Pikes Peak for the day, but my goal of climbing a 14,000 footer in Colorado would remain unrealized for now.

Cindy had her own unrealized hiking goal. We met while preparing with a group to hike the Appalachian Trail in 1980.  Her desire to hike long distances predated our relationship, but since that time my outdoor adventure objectives also became hers, even if she had to do them independently of me.

This was true for the Long Trail, which I hiked twice as part of an interdisciplinary course I helped to organize, called Frost’s New England, and once more with a nonprofit I founded for family disadvantaged teenagers.  Cindy was not on any of those hikes, though she provided support for the nonprofit journey.  She instead hiked the Long Trail with her friend and college roommate.

On our wall hangs my Triple Crown plaque, awarded after I became the third person to achieve the Triple Crown of long distance trails when I hiked the CDT in 1985.  Cindy became the first woman to thru-hike the CDT on the same journey, but I hiked the PCT before we met and that remains missing from her resume.  The plaque on the wall served as a constant reminder of her own unfinished goal.  Had Cindy not been afflicted with dementia she undoubtedly would have hiked the PCT someday, with me or without me.

Cindy’s unfinished goal gave me one nagging doubt about our journey.  Should I have chosen the PCT for us to hike instead?  I chose the ADT for three reasons: as the longest trail in the country we would have the most time to reboot our lives; all the towns along the way facilitated my public mission regarding kindness and community; less wilderness meant a safer journey if Cindy became challenged.  The fact that Cindy handled the wilderness portion of the ADT well led to further doubt about my choice on which trail to hike.

Leaving Great Mountain Falls we became the first ADT hikers to walk the excellent new trail that Dick built, accompanied by one of the builders.  As usual, a guest hiker (or were we the guests on a new trail tour) provided for conversation, and I learned that Mike served in the military, proclaimed to be a Buddhist and retired as a physicist.  He also declared that as part of his Buddhist faith he could not harm a flea, yet he holstered a gun.  I have no problem with hunters, sports shooters, former military or police officers carrying a gun, but a man who could not harm a flea carrying a gun for protection?

I could not help but point out the irony in that, which led to a series of increasingly bizarre hypotheticals as a reason I should carry a gun as well.  I made clear I would consider myself cowardly, given the probabilities, to carry a gun for protection from hypothetical dangers.  That led to his eventual hypothetical that a mad man could be standing behind the next tree and rush out to viciously attack Cindy before I could do anything (on a trail for which we were the first official hikers). Through this hypothetical reasoning Mike asserted that carrying a gun for my wife’s protection was the morally right thing to do.

I bring this up now because of what I have learned about brain health since then, as well as what has been happening to our society.  Hypotheticals and other logical fallacies are used to sway beliefs by engaging emotions such as anger and worry.  Living your life according to logical fallacies, instead of probabilities, fills your brain with metabolic toxins, but that is not the concern of the “news” outlet, interest group or social media influencer seeking to sway you.  The more enraged or worried you become from believing a trusted source, the more likely that trusted source is using alarming logical fallacies and undermining your brain health.  Fortunately, I never became worried about a man jumping out from behind a tree on a brand new hiking trail to harm Cindy.

Ky slack packed us from Green Mountain Falls to Cripple Creek, where she left us with our backpacking gear at a campground in town.  She needed to head down out of the mountains right away before an impending blizzard arrived.  Before she left, none other than John Nicholas pulled up to greet us.  John had been the source of my biggest regret during the journey, when our Leadville host left for work too early for us to thank him or say goodbye.  In the interim since we first met him, John was transferred to a mining operation near Cripple Creek.  He seemed as genuinely enthused to see us again as I was to be able to thank him and bring some closure.  Yet one more serendipitous moment!

We set up our tent at the campground just as snow started to fall.  One other tent already was set up near us, but otherwise mainly campers and trailers resided at the campground, which was much like a KOA.  The snow fell heavily throughout the night, causing me to occasionally get out of my sleeping bag to dig us out of the snow covering the tent.  The next morning the snowstorm still raged and the tent next to ours had collapsed.

Cindy always sleeps soundly, while I am a light sleeper.  If Cindy snored I woke up; if I snored I woke myself up.  Neither of us snoring ever seemed to wake Cindy up, but as I dug us out of snow throughout the night while Cindy continued to sleep, never moving a muscle or showing any sign that she knew a blizzard was going on, I could not help but wonder ….  Maybe Cindy was just smarter than me.

As the snow continued into the morning we took the day off.  Since Cripple Creek hosted casinos, our rest day allowed us to partake in two 49 cent breakfasts, and we only had to pay for one.  When the owner of Bronco Billy’s found out what we were doing he comped us breakfast on the second morning, before we packed up and headed down out of the mountains.  I tried to give our waitress a tip but she refused to take it.

While hanging out at the campground office we listened to a guitarist who resided in the campground and listened to his tale of woe.  Cheap breakfasts may have been available in Cripple Creek, but  where the establishments of the mining town once supported local musicians, Cripple Creek the casino destination featured DJs or out-of-town acts.  Cripple Creek was starting to resemble other resort towns such as Moab with plentiful but meager income opportunities, growing wealth disparity and elevated housing costs.

Our route down out of the mountains was on Shelf Road, a road not meant for your average vehicle.  As we headed down we recapped our journey in reverse, hiking first among mountains, then canyons, then arriving at desert twelve miles later for lunch.  We snacked on our trail mix sitting next to cacti and reflecting on how we broke camp that morning in the snow.  We did not quite meet my scheduling objective of getting over the Rockies before a blizzard hit us, but we came close enough.

Once we reached Canon City, Ky resumed slack packing us from there to Pueblo, while her friends Don and Lauren Craven provided us a base camp in West Pueblo.  Lauren arranged for me to speak at her church discussion group, the first time I talked about kindness and community for that venue.  This became a foreshadowing of our journey ahead, across the neverending but ultimately rewarding plains.

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The ADT Journey – Week 19

After Denver we went back up into the Front Range and headed south until we reached Green Mountain Falls, where the ADT Coordinator for the Colorado section lived.  Dick Bratton provided a home base for us when we arrived, which we needed while arranging our second trip back home.  We had another wedding on Cindy’s side of the family plus I had a paid Elderhostel gig, teaching a one day course based on my book “Systems out of Balance.”

Dick was a prominent figure with the ADT organization when we met him, also serving as a publicist and supervising the building of a new trail out of Green Mountain Falls.  He went out of his way to host and help the few ADT hikers coming through town each year.  We stayed with Dick for a couple of days both before and after our trip home.

Dick served us gin and tonics soon after we arrived at his place.  He only used Hendricks gin for these drinks, which he fancied because of their self-deprecating motto that they are the preferred gin by 1 out of 1000.  Another expression of Dick’s humor was his tendency to take any of your ideas and immediately repeat it as if it was his own.  His house proudly displayed his various interests, with badminton and skiing trophies, along with evidence of being a former airman, showman (and Dick could break out in song at any moment), his stint as mayor and, of course, his extensive involvement with the ADT and trail building.

The first morning we were there he brought us to The Pantry, the local food hangout, where I ordered and polished off a large breakfast burrito.  Only after I finished did I learn about the Mother Lode, a pancake that you get for free if you can eat the whole thing … which I did.  As we ate everyone came up to Dick to slap him on the back and ask how things were going with the town or the new section of trail the townsfolk were building for the ADT.  No other town along the route had as much awareness and involvement in the ADT as Green Mountain Falls, all due to Dick Bratton.

After my caregiver days are over I hope to do a nostalgia tour of the ADT, this time using my pedicab and giving rides to our kind hosts across the country.  Dick Bratton certainly would have been one of those hosts I revisited, except that he has since passed away.  These days I am in the frame of mind of wondering how many others will pass away before I can visit them, or if my physical capability to do so via nonmotorized travel will atrophy before the chance arises.

We traversed the Front Range during peak foliage for the area, always a thrill even if not New England fall colors.  The kindness continued when a couple with an inspiring story took us in.  They had escaped to the mountains after a life impacted by Demver area gangs and prison and totally immersed themselves in their small town community.  Unfortunately, they were heavy smokers and we did not relish staying with them, but their compulsion to turn around their lives by living for others compelled us to go along.

The couple reminded me of John Nicholas, the humble man we stayed with in Leadville who tricked me into accepting a twenty dollar bill.  We met John in Leadville because he moved in to take care of his ailing uncle and remained there after his uncle passed away.  Something about the humility of both John and the couple made their acts of kindness extra special.  Perhaps in the back of my mind I apprehended that John’s commitment as a caregiver would eventually be mine.

Thinking about John brought an unsettled feeling.  Outside of when we first met we had little interaction with him.  His job as an operator of large mining equipment required early to bed, early to rise and be gone all day.  We never said goodbye or thanked him for his kindness when we left.  This lack of proper closure haunted me for weeks afterwards.  Fortunately, we were able to thank the reformed and transplanted couple from Denver when we left.

When we left the Denver area Ky went back home for a week, but first she drove the support vehicle to a friend’s home in Colorado Springs.  When we arrived at Green Mountain Falls we got a ride to Colorado Springs and drove the support vehicle back up to the Denver airport, where we flew home to attend the second of our two weddings.  We appreciated Ky’s generosity in allowing us to commandeer her minivan in this fashion.

Everything about this second trip home went better than the first time.  My relationships warmed with Cindy’s family and our son was doing better, alleviating two stressors on Cindy.  My presentation at the Elderhostel also went well, as I was able to temper my descriptions of how our social systems are out of balance with the hope of kindness and community involvement we experienced first hand during our journey.

We arrived back at Denver on the same day as Ky and the three of us drove back down to Green Mountain Falls together.  We had just a few more days in the mountains before beginning our long trek across the plains.  Feeling refreshed and upbeat from our trip back home, could we now finish our mountain trek without being hit by a major snowstorm?

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The ADT Journey – Week 18

As we walked across the country people would ask what Cindy and I talked about while hiking all that time together.  I always responded that we had little to talk about, followed by an imaginary conversation:

How was your day today, dear?
Same as yours.
What did you see?
Same thing you did.

I deflected the topic because Cindy and I seldom conversed due to her cognitive decline, something we were not confessing on our journey.  People experiencing her affliction become too self-conscious to strike up a conversation.  Before we married Cindy was known as “Gabby Galvin” and I enjoyed the hundreds of miles listening to her (I could also dominate a conversation, but never in such a delightful manner).

One of the downsides of what would otherwise be our most amazing journey, out of many, was we no longer entertained each other through the occasional miles of monotony.  As we crossed the Front Range to Denver three people joined us on separate days, finally providing abundant opportunity to converse while hiking. 

Dave Rockwell, a high school classmate, joined us in Georgetown to hike with us for the entire day.  He then accompanied us to a speaking engagement I had at a college afterwards.  “Rocky” and I were probably the two classmates most engaged in outdoor adventure out of about 120 high school students.  We both acquired strong academic backgrounds after high school. I am not sure why we have not spent more time together over the years.

Mike Hinckley also joined us in Georgetown to join in our 25th anniversary celebration.  As part of the same 1980 expedition that brought Cindy and I together, he continued to stay in touch and hiked more thousands of miles with us than any of our other long distance hiker friends.  Though he did not hike with us out of Georgetown, Mike joined us as we came down out of the Front Range into the Denver area.  After hiking with us he brought us to his home in Littleton, along with Ky, where we stayed for a couple of rest days.

We also hiked a few miles with Allan, who we met as we crested the last ridge of the Front Range and got our first glimpse of the plains.  I imagine the intimidating awe that strikes the west bound hikers of the ADT when they come upon the looming presence of the Rocky Mountains after walking thousands of miles over the plains, particularly if they have not done previous mountain hikes.  Truth be told, a similar awe struck me when I first glimpsed the expansive plains, stretching out to the eastern horizon.

I love mountains.  Neither blizzards, thunderstorms, raging creeks nor lung busting terrain ever shook that love.  My comfort with hiking over mountains resembles most people’s comfort with a stroll along their local nature trail.  Mountains do not intimidate me.  But the never-ending plains?  Holy ****!  Looking out towards the plains was like looking out over the ocean, with the same feeling of infinite vastness.

I had to stop for a while to gaze at and reflect on the several questions this vastness represented.  How would we handle the sameness of the terrain?  How would we handle the interminable road walks?  How would we handle hiking through the winter?  How would we handle the lack of daylight?  How would we handle hiking through so many towns?  How would we handle spending the most important holidays away from home?  I felt more comfortable looking out over the Great Basin deserts we would cross in summer than I did looking out over America’s broad heartland.

During our rest days I gave an on-air interview at Denver’s public radio station and presented at the University of Denver.  When we left Mike’s company after three days we brought with us the merchandise we stashed at his place during our drive across the country.  Future stashes would need to be shipped home, as paltry sales of books and CDs reflected my lack of business acumen.  Fortunately, there were signs that we could fund Ky’s support beyond Colorado, as people continued to donate without us asking.

We spent our last day in the Denver area with Dan Brunson, the golfer we met at a campground in Fruita, who suggested I should be giving my talks about kindness and community involvement to young people at schools.  Since then I managed to present at four Colorado colleges.  We were touched that he chose to camp out with us our first night back on the trail, which also happened to be his birthday.

For the rest of our hike I would speak at only one more college, but managed to present at high schools and elementary schools as well.  Across the plains I added churches as yet another venue.  All things considered, Dan had a huge influence on our journey and mission; I remain appreciative to this day.

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The ADT Journey – Week 17

Two days out of Leadville found us hanging around the Copper Mountain resort area, where we took a break at the Daylight Donuts establishment, chowing down donuts and pastries, some free of charge.  In truth we were procrastinating, as the cold, overcast weather that afternoon boded ill tidings for our return to mountain ridges.  Our procrastination led to a serendipitous chain of events, which lasted until Illinois.

As we lingered around eating donuts and pastries several interested people talked to us, including a Nebraskan couple touring on motorcycles, who gave us twenty dollars.  The serendipity began when we met Andy Held. He informed us that a significant amount of snow was forecast for the higher elevations that evening and suggested the alternative of hiking on a bike path to Frisco, where he would put us up in a hotel for the night.  He also would take us out for breakfast the next morning for a longer chat.

Hmmmm.  We had a choice between taking the high route through mountain snowstorms, or the low route to a hotel, free breakfast and who knows what else.  We chose the low route, gladly adding six more miles to our day and not arriving in Frisco until dark.  The extra mileage aggravated my left foot, which otherwise had been feeling better since we left Utah, but this alternative promised to be worth the extra pain.

At breakfast the next morning Andy shared some of Frisco’s community oriented activities.  He also put in a good word to MountainSmith for us, for Cindy was in need of a new pack and they contracted with Andy as a web marketer.  In addition to our good fortune from meeting Andy, our presence in Frisco led to both a short and long term serendipitous chain.

We arranged to meet Ky at the Frisco Visitor Center to resupply for our next stretch up and over Argentine Pass, highest point on the American Discovery Trail and our final crossing to the east side of the Continental Divide.  The long term serendipitous chain began when we met three tourists from Kansas City at the visitor center while waiting for Ky.  They took a great interest in our journey and we took a great interest in possibly having a place to stay when the ADT brought us through Kansas City.

Before we parted, Ardie and Gretchen acquired our email address for later contact and gave to us another twenty dollar bill, for the third time in less than a week and the seventh time overall.  I want to make clear we never asked for donations during the journey; people just kept giving to us even when we tried to refuse.  In any case, twenty dollars pales in value to what Ardie and Gretchen would do for us later in the journey.

The Summit Daily newspaper in Frisco, which lies in the appropriately named Summit County, interviewed us while we were in town.  That began the short chain of serendipitous events over the next few days, as we hiked through the towns of the broad valley nestled between majestic peaks.  Our next town after Frisco was Dillon, which we did not reach until dark due to a series of delays and miscalculations.

We hoped to camp in the National Forest that evening, but the full campground forced us to move on.  After the National Forest came the Dillon Reservoir, with no camping allowed.  That explained our late arrival into a populated area with no obvious prospects for camping, given our limited financial means.

We approached a police officer parked at a municipal park and asked if we could stay in the park for the night, explaining that we were walking 5,000 miles across the country.  He said no, he would give us a ticket.  We then asked if we could spend the night in jail, a tactic used by some of my long distance hiker friends in the past.  He reiterated that he would give us a ticket if we continued to linger and added that the police in Dillon do not have a sense of humor.

We saw no other alternative but to bust the budget and rent a room in a Best Western that night.  The next morning we went to the lobby for the continental breakfast.  In the paper rack was the Summit Daily with a picture of us prominently featured.  The manager at the desk took note of the resemblance between the photo and us and comped us the room, resolving our budget dilemma.  I only hoped that the police officer we met saw us in that paper as well.

The next town after Dillon was Keystone.  As we hiked along the bike path from end to end through the town we encountered a few other people who noted the similarity between us and the Summit Daily photo.   A bridal party adopted us and treated us at a coffee shop near the route.  We took our time with the hope that the stormy weather that day would pass.  When we reached the far end of Keystone, huddling under a bus stop in a steady rain, we were rescued from going further that day by Deb Stein, another Summit Daily reader who paid for another hotel stay that night.

During a four day stretch of mostly bad weather in the mountains we spent three nights in three different hotels, all free of cost, all comped by different people, thanks to a chance encounter with Andy Held.  Fortunately, the last day of bad weather was more rain than snow in the mountains, mostly clearing the trails for our momentous ascent over Argentine Pass.  A sparkling clear day greeted us as we finally left our hospitable valley behind.

Cindy once again struggled above 12,000’, but this would be our last climb of that magnitude.  We took a break at the pass for a good while, parked against the lee side of some rocks to reduce the windy cold.  Our climb had been where the typical rain shadow on the western side of major mountains nurtures abundant vegetation.  The east side of Argentine Pass, all the more drier from the same rain shadow effect, appeared barren in contrast.

We watched another hiker ascend towards us, wearing a much lighter pack with plans to loop back down before the end of the day.  Well behind his schedule, he left the pass before we did in order to get down before dark.  He may not have succeeded.

By arriving at Argentine Pass on September 18 we accomplished our goal of getting over the Continental Divide before September 22.  Just a short distance north, on the same date, a blizzard snowed in our group at 11,000’ in the Arapaho Wilderness.  I originally hoped to cross the divide on September 19, for our 25th anniversary, but we arrived a day early to take advantage of the clear weather.

We officially celebrated our 25th in January with a vacation in Kauai, but spending this brief time together above 13,000’ seemed a more fitting way to toast our wonderful journey together.  Cindy again showed signs of cognitive improvement since her stressed out lows in Utah, but that hopeful sign did not overcome a feeling of nostalgia that this break may be the last one for us to feel on top of the world together.

We ended our break and turned to go down the barren east side of the Continental Divide, a couple of long distance hikers doing their thing together.

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The ADT Journey – Week 16

We left Crested Butte packed for a five day stretch that would bring us to Leadville, the highest town in the United States.  Already while hiking in Colorado we met more people than in the whole states of Nevada and Utah.  Though Barrett hiked with us for awhile in the same west-east direction, we encountered no long distance hikers coming the other way, on the ADT or any other trail.  Indeed, we met very few hikers going either way at any distance; most of our backcountry encounters were with ATV users.

That changed our second day out when we spotted a person heading westbound who appeared to be a long distance hiker, considering his gear, gait and conditioning.  I walked right up to him for a handshake and declared:  “You look like a long distance hiker, the first one we have seen coming from the opposite direction.  Let me shake your hand!”

Given the remote area where we met, we knew each other to be ADT hikers and sat down to chat for a spell.  I discovered I already knew about Mark’s former hiking partner while planning our journey.  His partner publicly declared himself to be hiking the ADT the year before us for a clean water cause.  Mark’s partner had dropped out and Mark took the winter off before resuming the hike in 2011.

Unlike with Barrett, our encounter would be a once only occurrence before resuming our hikes. We stretched out our chat as long as feasible, but cold weather and an approaching storm sent us moving on in our opposite directions.  Mark was not likely to encounter any other ADT distance hiker for the rest of his journey.  Only a handful of people thru-hike the ADT each year and most go in the same direction as Mark, the direction in which the ADT guide was written.  No one would be starting towards the end of summer from Point Reyes to go eastbound, regardless.

We were more likely than Mark to encounter another long distance hiker, but not for many months, as distance hikers usually avoid hiking throughout the winter.  We could not expect to bump into anyone else like us until the next calendar year, when we would hike through an Appalachian spring.  Speaking of winter, the weather had a wintry feel when we parted with Mark.  As our chat with him already held us up, we shortened our day in preparation for the likely storm coming.   

Whether by design or accident (I do not remember which now) we landed ourselves after only ten miles at Goodwin-Greene Cabin.  The cabin is part of the Braum hut system, which is much like the AMC huts of the White Mountains in New Hampshire.  When we first arrived, father and son from the state of Washington were there for the muzzle loading season, which had started after the bow season ended.  We trusted muzzle loaders similarly to bow hunters, equally adept at their craft and hospitable to hikers.  After eating supper they left the whole cabin to us while they camped out and scoped for game.

Inside the cabin we weathered a storm that dusted the higher elevations with snow, less than three weeks after we weathered a sandstorm in the desert.  We slept on mattresses near a wood stove and took advantage of the kitchen’s butter pecan syrup for our oatmeal in the morning.  We did not mind at all discovering we were a little bit sidetracked from the official ADT route.

Rather than backtrack the next morning we headed out cross country to rejoin the ADT at a high pass.  Orienteering to stay true to an obscure trail below treeline frustrates me, while orienteering over wide open high country invigorates me more than any other type of hiking.  How do I convey such a feeling?

Imagine your youthful desire for exploration, at least for those of us fortunate enough to grow up near natural landscapes.  First you explore your neighborhood, then the woods beyond your neighborhood, then perhaps the other side of the hill beyond those woods, increasingly expanding the boundaries of your freedom and curiosity.  Hiking cross country over alpine and subalpine lands extends these boundaries to their most independent, wild and beautiful limits.

The day started and ended with cross country work over high country, with a dip down in the middle to a mountain reservoir where we cooked lunch.  We met only two other hikers the whole day, a couple who were former NOLS instructors.  That gives you an indication of our remote location.  In fact, the alleged trail to follow near the end of the day disappeared through lack of use, which explains why we headed cross country over a 13,000’ pass.

Crossing the pass placed us on the eastern side of the Continental Divide, which we would cross two more times before permanently heading east away from the mountains.  The approach reminded me of another one coming from the other direction, not far away but 26 years ago.  After resupplying in Leadville, while staying in the firehouse during ten degree weather, the expedition I organized to hike the Continental Divide Trail left town to cross the divide.

Recent snowstorms presented about two feet of soft snow around between us and the pass, making the trail impossible to follow.  For some reason we were the only people crazy enough to be heading over the pass under these conditions, which meant we had to posthole a route up to the high altitude pass. As the leader I took on that grueling responsibility.  The image of looking back occasionally at my zig-zag path with the rest of the group determinedly following, remains vivid decades later.  On the one hand a very satisfying memory of cohesion and determination; on the other hand a memory that explains why we had just hiked through the Great Basin desert during the heat of summer.

That memory also recalled how Cindy could not keep up with me trudging up through the snow; nor could she keep up with me now on our cross country ascent.  Cindy had the most flawless stride of anyone I had the pleasure to hike behind.  Her efficiency enabled her to keep up with us taller folk effortlessly on mild terrain such as the desert, but climbing a mountain takes a good deal of lung power as well as leg power.

Twenty-six years ago we sat on our large packs and glissaded down the other side of the steep, snow-covered pass, a fun reward for our labors during the ascent.  Once we reached a level area we made camp before darkness approached.  That night Cindy and I kept our boots in our sleeping bags to keep them pliable during a night that dipped below zero.  The next morning my boots were fine while Cindy’s were stiff, despite having the same sleeping bag model.

Twenty-six years later the descent from our 13,000’ pass was instead the worst part of the day.  With still no obvious trail and no snow for glissading, we took a knee-shocking route down towards the treeline.  An added challenge was guessing where, once we came upon forest, the trail might finally appear.  Still, we had a satisfying day with a satisfying camp that evening … and our footgear did not freeze during the night.

When we reached Leadville I headed for the fire station, with hopes to revive the memory of the hospitality our Connecticut Continental Divide Expedition received in 1985.  Times changed and they declined to host us this time around.  However, on the way across town to the fire station a man out in his yard stopped us to find out what we were doing.  John Nicholas offered for us to stay at his place, but at the time we declined.  He then offered us twenty dollars but we declined that as well.  As we headed away he ran up to us, shouting that we dropped something.  In my outstretched hand he placed a twenty dollar bill and ran back before I could say anything.  We obviously had a place to stay when the fire station fell through.

While in Leadville I presented to my second college gig at Colorado Mountain College but, as was often the case during our journey, I received more information than I gave about kindness and community.  We also attended the vibrant community meals luncheon hosted at the St. George Episcopal Church.  I interviewed the director to discover why this program worked so well.  Ali Lufkin shared with us the three ingredients, plus the most memorable quote of our journey.

The community meals program worked to get people from all demographics attending the luncheons.  The mayor attended regularly; college faculty attended, as did students.  They also worked to get people from all demographics involved in the preparation of the meals, those well off and those downtrodden.  Finally, they required those preparing the meals to join those coming to eat the meals.  She summed up their philosophy with this quotable gem:

“We try to confuse who is giving and who is receiving.”

I see that now as the difference between community involvement, which has been waning in our country, and volunteerism, which has grown in response to the shrinking middle class and growing problems of poverty.  With volunteerism people are doing things for others; community involvement tackles similar goals by doing things with others.

As we continued across the country I inserted this quote into all my talks.  Colorado continued to feed one of our reasons for walking across the country with glowing examples of kindness and community.  I just hoped that when winter arrived our most important reason would not be undermined by the cold we had yet to face, which would affect Cindy more.

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The ADT Journey – Week 15

The Grand Mesa Plateau looms as a transitional landscape between canyons and mountains.  While called a mesa, the top of the plateau features aspen and other mountain vegetation covering undulating terrain, dotted with lakes.  The lakes we encountered transitioned between the pond like “lakes” found in the mountains of central Utah and the pure alpine lakes of the Rockies.  This transitional landscape was good enough to make us feel right at home, with the added bonus that we were full packing across the plateau, just like the good ol’ days.

We camped one of the nights with three bow hunters we first encountered earlier in the day.  You might think that hiking during bow season poses a risk, but I trust the bow hunter’s dedication to their sport.  I have no apprehension I will be shot by a yahoo bow hunter, given their expertise and the range of their arrows. Besides, every bow hunter we met between Grand Junction and Crested Butte provided us snacks and other forms of hospitality.

Unfortunately, there are plenty of yahoos in possession of rifles, with the numbers increasing over the decades.  A rancher shared his story with me of hunters from Denver paying him to hunt on his land.  They came back at the end of the day to pay him for the horse they shot, with deep apologies.  The rancher later discovered they really shot a cow elk instead, giving him in total two payoffs and a large cache of delicious elk meat.

We walked on both hiking and ATV trails across the Grand Mesa.  Blowdowns often littered the hiking trails due to neglected trail maintenance, though not as much as we encountered in Utah, where recent avalanches caused the blowdowns instead. In contrast to the trails, the ATV roads on the mesa were well-maintained.  A Forest Service ranger in the area for a field conference provided us the reason why.  ATVers invest more in their gear and recreation than hikers.  As part of that investment they put greater pressure on the Forest Service to respond to their needs; a squeaky wheel thing.

We encountered almost no litter on ATV roads in Colorado, in stark contrast to ATV roads in Utah.  A group of motorbikers provided us the reason for this as well. More locals recreate on the Colorado trails than the Utah trails; pride of ownership leads them to take care of their trails.

We descended off the Grand Mesa plateau to the town of Redstone, then ascended along Marble Creek into the mountains again along.  The ascent brought us all the way back to the mountain hiking we love, following a winding ribbon of pure water rushing through towering cathedrals on either side.  We capped off this heavenly hiking by camping on a small rise, overlooking an alpine lake, close by the mountain pass we just crossed.

The next morning we broke camp while witnessing in the distance a tow truck using a winch to pull a 4wd vehicle off a snow plug blocking the dirt road heading up towards the lake.  California in June featured 15’ minimum snowpacks; Nevada in July featured flooded open deserts; Utah in August featured massive blowdowns from avalanches and bloated creeks that could not be crossed with a Jeep; now Colorado in September featured a lingering snow plug from the previous season which likely existed until the new snow season began.

At least this anomaly posed no problem for us.  We easily made our way over the snow plug while the sheep-faced driver watched his quite literal “off road” vehicle being rescued.  From there we descended steadily down into the town of Crested Butte.

As we approached a crosswalk in town, a driver also approaching the sidewalk stopped in advance to let us pass.  After we crossed she drove beyond the crosswalk, turned her car around, parked her car near us and jumped out.

“I told myself never to pass up an interesting story!  You two look like you are doing something interesting.”

Before Delreena was done chatting with us she invited us to her house to stay, with Ky joining us.  This was a great start to what would be another terrific town stop for our public mission about kindness and community.  The community radio station interviewed us, as did the local paper, for whom I also provided both the scoop and photos of the vehicle conquered by a snow plug.

I interviewed Kevin McGruther,  the organizer of an initiative that tied together a farmer’s market with a food pantry.  Crested Butte lies high up in the Rockies and far from where most farmers grow their crops.  Rather than having to bring excess food back home from Crested Butte, the farmers participate in a “food for fees” program.  They give their excess food in lieu of a fee for participating in the market.  That healthy food is then provided to a food pantry.

Redstone also provided us inspiration in regards to the mission.  As an unincorporated town, the inhabitants of Redstone fulfill all the necessary functions of an incorporated town without compensation, with a vibrant result.  When we did our grocery shopping for our next stretch in a nearby town we met Joan, who bicycled around Colorado with her late husband to raise money for causes such as Alzheimer’s.  She was moved to tears by what we were doing, which in turn moved us to tears as well.

Grand Junction, Redstone and Crested Butte foreshadowed what to expect from the rest of our journey: people extending kindness to us; people extending kindness to each other; and communities taking care of their own.  I chose the American Discovery Trail for our journey, instead of a beloved wilderness trail, because the length would extend Cindy’s rejuvenation and because all the towns along the way provided a platform to speak.  I had no idea at the start how much the journey would further boost my belief in humanity.

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