Category Archives: Alzheimer’s Love Story

Contingency Plans

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I heard a chuckle from Cindy as I pushed her in the datemobile (wheelchair) up the Haystack Mountain road. One might think this results from getting Cindy out in nature, but who knows. Cindy gives an occasional chuckle even in … Continue reading

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“There is beauty in ordinary things.”

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“There is beauty in ordinary things. Isn’t that the point?” That is the last line of the last episode of the last sitcom that Cindy and I will be binge watching together. The concluding sentiment has to be the best … Continue reading

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Caregiver Care

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The alarm on my iPad goes off at 7:00 am. I’ve been awake for a little while, which often happens when the days are long, but the alarm signals the start of my daily routine. Two months ago the routine … Continue reading

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A Favor for a Friend

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A friend of mine needs a favor to help him in his role as a long term caregiver. He knows what he needs, based on both research and extensive experience, but my friend is very shy and introverted, seldom bold … Continue reading

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Heat Wave

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I have been Cindy’s full time caregiver for over eight years now. My attitude regarding some things are bound to change. The heat wave provided a tipping point for a couple of these changes. I attempt to follow all the … Continue reading

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Preserving the Will to Live

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As I retire Cindy’s worn out pants I have a difficult decision to make. Do I get a replacement pair? Three years ago when my daughters bought these pants and two others the decision was easier. Based on her rate … Continue reading

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“You should ask first.”

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This is a little off-topic, though a person in my situation appreciates when something adds a little spice to the daily routine. This morning started out as usual. Cindy was upstairs in our entertainment room, supposedly watching a baking show, … Continue reading

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Hanging Clothes and Washing Dishes

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We have two dryers in our basement, both broken now. My first reaction was the “normal” one: What a bother! Then I recalled my amusement at all the times I’ve heard someone complain about a broken dishwasher. I never had … Continue reading

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Betrayals of Fate and their Silver Linings

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I cycled family slides on the television monitor. I could cycle our hiking slides, but Cindy sees enough of those when I practice the first four movements of the American Discovery symphony. This is the time of day when I … Continue reading

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“I uv oo.”

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May 2, 2018. Wood Creek Pond. That’s when I heard what might seem to be gibberish: “I uv oo.” Most of Cindy’s communication these days is done with sighs. Even then her sighs of lament sound much the same as … Continue reading

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